I think obsession is only able to happen

when someone is unavailable to us.

because if someone is truly with u physically

or emotionally and intellectually

then there is no room for the obsession to come in.

So, if you’re obsessed with someone

you’re probably obsessed with that space in between.

you’re obsessed with the version

of the person that you’ve created in your mind.

because ure not able to get to know them in reality

and perhaps you dont even really want them.

perhaps you simply want them to want you.

notice how the obsession fades away

once you get that person.

tahts because youre not obsessed with them,

but rather with the space.

that gap, that emptiness,

which is only a reflection of the emptiness

incompleteness

and disconnect within yourself.